THE SECRET TO BELONGING BY MEGAN E. FREEMAN
The Secret to Belonging is both a heartbreaking and hopeful story about family, loyalty, love, and the complicated emotions that come with wanting something different for yourself while feeling responsible for a family that has so often let you down.
At the center of the story is a teenage girl who has spent much of her life feeling invisible in her own family. Her older brother’s drug addiction has consumed her parents’ time, attention, and money. Between his legal troubles and repeated attempts at rehabilitation, there is little left for her. Her parents miss the important moments in her life, and when they spend the college fund her grandparents established for her on yet another stay in rehab for her brother, her future seems to disappear as well.
With encouragement from her best friend, she applies for a scholarship to spend her senior year of high school in Norway. And for the first time in as long as she can remember, she experiences what it feels like to be part of a stable, loving family. She embraces her new school, learns a new language, makes wonderful friends, and falls in love with a boy named Espen. For once, life is about her and the possibilities ahead of her.
But just as she begins to build a life she loves, a family tragedy connected to her brother’s addiction leaves both her mother and brother needing care. Despite desperately wanting to stay in Norway, she returns home to help her father. Before long, she is back working at the same video store, handing over her pay cheques, and putting everyone else’s needs ahead of her own. Her friends want her to understand that her family’s struggles do not have to determine the course of her life. But knowing that and finding the courage to act on it are two very different things.
Freeman makes some interesting choices in how she tells the story. Written entirely in verse and in second person, the novel never reveals the main character’s name. In an interview, Freeman explained that this was deliberate. By addressing the reader as “you,” she invites us to step into the main character’s place. And, if the story is about you, you already know your own name. There is, however, a tiny clue in the novel that allows readers to figure out the name Freeman imagined for her character if they are inclined to do so.
The Secret to Belonging is a great choice for readers drawn to realistic fiction, complicated family dynamics, and characters you can’t help but cheer for. Readers who enjoy novels in verse will appreciate Freeman’s storytelling, and those new to the format may be surprised by just how completely it draws them in. As mentioned, the novel deals with some heavy themes, particularly addiction and its effects on families, but it’s also a story about discovering that you deserve to belong, too.
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